How Judith's work is different from that of other spiritual helpers and Psychotherapists
• As you heal yourself in your personal and spiritual journey, Judith will offer to help you go past just healing your wounds ... to include a crucial part of the process -- spinning the straw of your wounds into the gold of your strengths and gifts. She will help you do this attuned to your right timing and development, so that you don’t skip over crucial steps to prematurely find the gold.
• Rather than trying to get you to transcend your ego, leaving it untouched, undeveloped, unhealed, to drive you from underground, to haunt you, to pull you back to work with it ... and rather than trying to help you strengthen your ego so that it alone becomes your strength and source ... Judith will help you heal, mature, and inform your ego to the point that it is strong enough to then join in union with your Higher Self and with the Divine Source.
• At the same time as this is occurring, she will help you develop your relationship with the Divine, in whatever form or name you know the Divine. In doing this, she will help you become a co-creator with the Divine ... neither leaving everything to the Divine without any help from you, nor taking on everything yourself without being open to help from the Source. She will help you experience the Mystery of Divine partnership.
• This process can only truly happen if every level of our being is attended to ... mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual. We cannot talk ourselves into healing, transformation, and birth. We cannot spiritualize away what has affected us in our hearts, in our cells, and in our soul substance. We cannot safely descend into our own underground labyrinths on a feeling and cellular level, without having either an understanding of the process, a calling to the process, or a faith in the Divine mystery. Judith will help you weave these elements together, as you and your soul need.
• You cannot just affirm, pray or release energy to heal, without consciously attending to that in you which is calling to be healed. We are not here just to heal. Rather, we are here to heal, transform, and evolve. And evolution needs consciousness! Healing without consciousness is not magic, but rather fear of consciousness.
• The end does not justify the means. Force, intimidation, manipulation, pressure, impositions, escape routes ... can only harm the process and likely re-create a wound which you are seeking to heal. Judith, as midwife, will attune to you and help you in your own soul’s rhythm, your own soul’s pace, your own soul’s organic unfoldment.
But at the same time, this requires of you ...
... that you move out of the quick-fix mentality of today’s culture, that you move out of a mentality of fixing! That you move out of the mentality of functioning in the outer world to avoid your inner work. If you hold onto this way of functioning, you will not be able to create your outer world from your inner world; you will not be able to unfold into a new way that is informed with love and truth.
... that you move out of the mentality of rising above and going around the defenses and pain of your ancient wounds, and instead say "yes" to going through them. In truth -- there is no way around, only through.
... that you move into the essence healing to the very root of your being! The only way we can heal.
• Judith will work with you to heal the splits in you that perpetuate duality. She will help you: move out of the duality in which you turn to the light and do the work of the Higher Self, in an effort to avoid the work of the dark and transforming the lower self back into its original Divine essence; move out of the duality in which you bury yourself in the dark to avoid the work of coming out into and joining with the light; and transform duality, including that of light is good and dark is bad.
• Judith works with feelings in a rare and profoundly effective way. To help you utilize your feelings as the friends and divining rods they are to your deepest self ... she will offer to help you stop your repression of feelings, your acting out of your feelings, your sublimation of feelings, and your limiting yourself to simply quietly feeling your feelings. Instead she will teach you how to inhabit your feelings in a safe and valuable way that truly transforms your feelings into guides. In the process she will also help you develop your capacity to work this way with your feelings.
• Judith's work reflects her commitment to and living of the deep feminine. She will help you -- men and women alike -- re-discover, reclaim, and reconnect with the deep feminine … so desperately needed in our world today.
• Judith will offer, with love and truth, her clarity about the spiritual truths that are being taught in our world today. She will help you tease apart the distortions from the truth. She will help you distinguish the misuses and abuses of spiritual truth from their loving application and their existence in the larger cauldron of Divine Mystery.
• Judith has a passion for safety. No matter what the form in which you are working with her, she will seek the safety of all concerned. Many spiritual helpers leave this out under the guise of the spiritual teaching that we’re all safe because we’re Spirit. Judith wants you safe on all levels of being.
• Judith will be present with you in a rare way -- the result of an innate gift, developed and deepened over thirty years work. What she offers you will be from her own sensing and feeling, from her partnership with you, from her trust in mystery and from her deep Divine guidance.
Judith Barr, a Spiritual Midwife, is a master in this process. She helps people conceive of the possibility, nourish and strengthen themselves through gestation, give birth to aspects of their golden selves again and again, on deeper and deeper levels, and grow and nurture the newly born aspects into fullness.
